‘You can’t be a feminist and like pink’. Society has a harsh way of making us feel completely out of line and out of context. Based on which criteria? Drumrolls… No one knows. That’s how the anonymous writer of the Ambivalently Yours blog started out. Tired of having to be labeled feminist or fashion girl when she actually wanted to be both, she decided to embrace her contradictions first by leaving notes anonymously in public places (supermarket, airport shuttle, bank machine), then by blogging and finally by drawing. She actually sends illustrations when she replies back to her readers. She uses pastel colors and a humorous tone that speak of the serious subject of finding oneself and accepting to being caught in the middle of two extreme identities.
She is basically saying outloud what a lot of girls and women are thinking and feeling. But who is she? She is a she, that’s all we know. No name, age, eye or hair color. She can be anyone, and that’s the beauty of it. She says the readers ask her questions with no interest in knowing more about details. It’s all about exchanging ideas, celebrating contradictions, confessing emotions, hi-lighting imperfections and being there for each other when no one else understands.
Recently, because being a “boldly undecided girl” is not enough, she decided to set herself a two dimensional challenge. During a 91 day residency at the CCA residency in Glasgow, UK she will answer over 300 emails by drawing back illustrations. The underlying challenge being to deal with uncut isolation and everything that goes with it: solitude, mistakes and meltdowns. The results are predicted to be brilliant as some of them can already be seen on her instagram account. (via Dazed Digital)